Entering My Dream Girl Era
Today I want to talk about something that has been on my heart for a while—stepping into my Dream Girl Era. It’s more than just an aesthetic or a phase; it’s about intentionally shaping my future self. It’s about becoming the woman I’ve always envisioned—the one who has her life together, moves with purpose, and makes choices that align with her best self.
What is My Dream Girl Era?
My Dream Girl Era is the future version of me—the best, most put-together, confident, and successful version of myself. Maybe she arrives in my 30s, or maybe she’s just the person I grow into over time. Either way, she is thriving.
She’s the mom who gives off that effortless, rich-mom energy—the one who doesn’t have to work but still makes thousands a month because she’s built multiple income streams. She’s the woman who works out at 10 AM in her Lululemon set, drives a black SUV, and somehow manages to be at every PTA meeting. She looks like she has it all together—and the best part? She actually does.
But my Dream Girl Era isn’t just about appearances. It’s about setting up a life where work fits around me—not the other way around. It’s about being present for my kids, taking care of my body and mind, and making financial choices that set me up for true freedom. It’s about making choices today that my future self will thank me for.
Future me doesn’t rack up credit card debt over a lazy night when she doesn’t feel like cooking. She doesn’t waste hours scrolling TikTok when she could be building something meaningful. She values her time, her energy, and her peace. So if I want to become her, I need to start acting like her now.
Here are the steps I’m taking to step into my Dream Girl Era:
Steps to Becoming My Dream Girl
- Dainty Gold Bracelets – Minimal, high-quality, everyday jewelry that I can wear always, even in the shower.
- A Good Pair of Sunglasses – Stylish, comfortable, and durable sunglasses that I actually keep up with.
- Rings with My Kids’ Names – A sentimental, beautiful reminder of them in a stackable ring set.
- Working Out 5x a Week – Moving my body consistently because it makes me feel strong and capable.
- Getting Dressed Daily – No more oversized t-shirts and biker shorts every day. Looking put-together makes a difference.
- A Limited, High-Quality Wardrobe – Curating a closet of timeless pieces I love, not just fast fashion trends.
- A Minimal Skincare Routine – A simple, effective morning and night routine that makes me feel fresh.
- Taking Vitamins Daily – Supporting my health with essential nutrients (hello, gummies!).
- Becoming Debt-Free – No more credit card debt, personal loans, or student loans holding me back.
- Less Mindless Scrolling on Social Media – Consuming long-form, meaningful content instead of endless doom-scrolling.
- Reading More Books – Prioritizing learning and self-growth through books and audiobooks.
- Teaching – Finally diving into teaching a fitness class.
- Consistently Hosting My Podcast – Staying committed to my podcast and using it to encourage and uplift others.
- Waking Up Early & Prepping for the Day – Starting my mornings with intention instead of rolling out of bed when my kid wakes up.
- Daily Time in the Word – Making Bible study a consistent part of my life, not just occasional devotionals.
- Taking Yearly Trips with My Husband & Friends – Prioritizing experiences and relationships through travel.
- Serving in a Church Community – Finding a church home, getting involved, and surrounding myself with a faith-filled community.
- Being Active with My Kid(s) – Staying engaged and moving with them, whether it’s walks, playtime, or workouts.
- Owning a Home & Creating a Cozy Space – Not just buying a house, but truly making it home—intentional, warm, and lived-in.
The Journey Toward My Future Self
These aren’t just random goals. They’re intentional steps toward becoming the woman I know I’m meant to be. Some will take time, and that’s okay. The Dream Girl Era isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress. It’s about choosing to show up every day as the future me I dream of.
So here’s to making choices that align with her. Here’s to building a life that feels good, not just looks good. Here’s to stepping into my Dream Girl Era, one intentional step at a time.
